Thursday, September 11, 2008

Request for Advice

Friends who read this blog, I want to ask you for some advice. Recently I posted my earlier blog entry entitled "Where the Hell is the Church?" to Facebook for a wider audience to read. You might recall that post as a rather angry expression of my dissatisfaction with the church which has, in my opinion, largely neglected its mission to the poor. An old friend of mine responded to this post with a message to me and I would like to share with you our correspondence below:

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My friend wrote:

There aren't many other people I would bring this up to, Greg, but I know you will take it for what it is worth:

You aren't going to enlist people in our cause by coming off as angry and bitter. What few people you get that way will not be there for the right reasons. If you love what you are doing, say so. If it's real, then people will see that and a certain number will want to come along. It may not be a huge number, but it will be an effective force, and God may even make your efforts go further than you thought possible, just like He did when the disciples fed the five thousand.


I responded:

Thanks for these words, friend. I've just spent the last half hour thinking about them and praying over them. Perhaps you are right. I was quite reluctant to post this most recent note which I originally wrote only for my few blog readers. I don't want to come off as just another "angry liberal." I know how much of a turnoff that can be. On the other hand, I must admit that I am indeed angry. I am angry that the church is not, in my humble opinion, accomplishing its mission. And I'm not quite sure what to do with that anger. If it is righteous anger then, just as Jeremiah spoke out to his people, I am also obligated to speak out. (In fact, you might accuse Jeremiah as "coming off angry and bitter" given many of the things he says). This is the constant tension that I wrestle with as one who feels called to be a prophet: I want to speak what I believe the church needs to hear even if it is unpleasant. At the same time, I don't want to be a bitter and angry person. Maybe you can help me here.

Let's take an example of something we both agree on. Both of us are adamantly opposed to abortion. Now if one night I get inspired to write down my honest anger and outrage over the murderous killing of our children and write about it, this might come off as angry and bitter to some (especially those who disagree with me). But, assuming that my cause is just, would I be wrong in expressing such indignation? I just don't know the answer to that question. Sometimes I think "yes" and sometimes "no." Your response has hit me hard probably because for years I have wrestled with the very issue that you raise. Another factor to consider is that a number of people have written me and told me what a blessing my post was to them. So I'm not sure what to do with that. Let's keep this dialog going because I deeply respect your opinions. Thanks for courageously advising me of your thoughts.


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So now, my dear blog readers, I turn this question to you. Is it right to cry out in anger about what I consider to be social injustices or would it be better to maintain a silent witness through actions alone? Would remaining silent be more virtuous or would it actually be an act of neglect? I look forward to your responses.

2 comments:

  1. Greg,

    The comments around this are very intriguing and thought provoking. As a fellow worker in the inner city, I completely understand many of the thoughts you expressed, and I have heard many of those same comments from others I work with.

    I think I first came to recognize a discrimination by people in the suburbs towards those in the city. A misunderstanding, judgment, etc. I have since also recognized almost a reverse discrimination by those in the city towards those in the suburbs. A misunderstanding, judgment, etc. I often am tempted towards anger for the suburban church for missing the boat in many ways, and yet I think that we have a responsibility to minister to the suburban church. Some churches do get it. They minister to those in their community in the suburbs and then they also preach about what it means to be the hands and feet of Christ and serving the poor among us.

    However, many times it seems that the suburban church, if they are inclined to serve the city, feel that they are bringing Jesus to the city, when really He has been here all along.

    We provide an opportunity for the church to learn to be the hands and feet of Christ and reach out and serve the poor and address issues of social justice, oppression, etc.

    Even as I write these comments, I also still go back and forth on the right way to approach this. Obviously, as you have seen, some people respond to "righteous anger", and others are turned off. Maybe it is our role to ask the questions that make people consider their motives and their actions, because I believe for them to truly change the Lord will have to do a mighty work and they will have to come to a realization for themselves. Just some thoughts and I'd love to talk more with you about this as I work through this as well.

    Andrew

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  2. It's good to read this dialogue because we have wrestled with so many of the same questions. It seems like it's a complicated mix of audience, timing, experience, and discernment. Jesus was obviously the supreme example of knowing his audience really well, knowing exactly when to push, when to be angry, when to be gentle, etc. Also of having the timing and the perfect attunement to the Spirit. I lack this, but want to develop it. Marriage is helpful too, right? Often when I take the fiery prophetic voice, Alan reminds me of the long-term, patient aspects of the gospel.

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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